bober

an app by bober · being built

A little letter that asks someone out.

You keep your date ideas somewhere. When you want to ask, you turn a few of them into something you can send — and they open it on their phone, pick what they like, and say yes.


how it works/

It's how you'd say it anyway

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jot it down

Write "jazz bar" and you're done. Add the link later, or don't.

✉️

write it out

One thing after another, the way you'd text it. Leave a choice open where you'd rather they picked.

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send it

Seal it and you get a link. Until you send it, nobody knows it exists.

place holder

for whoever opens it

The only thing to commit to is you

They tap the link and the letter opens. Nothing to install, no account to make, not even a name to type.

Then they can answer properly. They pick between your options, say something back, or put their own idea over yours — the aquarium after dark, instead? You'll see it the moment they do.


later on/

Then you get a fridge

Ask someone often enough and you can ask them in properly.

🧊

a door you both write on

Ideas you both want go on it. Letters land there. Your own notebook stays yours — a surprise needs somewhere to sit.

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a magnet per good day

Went somewhere good? It gets a little thing on the door, with the photo tucked underneath.

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two people, that's the guest list

Nobody follows you here, and nothing's counting your streak. It's a fridge, not a feed.


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