Apps — 01
datepitcher
A little letter that asks someone out.
You keep your date ideas somewhere. When you want to ask, you turn a few of them into something you can send — and they open it on their phone, pick what they like, and say yes.
published 24.09.26
How it works
01
Jot it down
Write “jazz bar”. Add a link, a place or a time later, if you have one.
02
Write it out
Put a few ideas in the order you’d say them. Where you’d rather they chose, leave it open.
03
Send it
Seal it and you get a link to send. It stays private until you do.
Ideas
Keep them as they come
A line each — “that ramen place”, “the bookshop with the cat” — with a link or a photo when you have one.
When it’s time to ask, filter by eat, visit, watch or do and pick from what you’ve saved.
datepitcher — the notebook
Writing
Turn a few into a letter
Put the ideas you mean in the order you’d say them. Where you’d rather they chose, leave the choice open.
Seal it and you get a link to send. Nobody sees it until you do.
datepitcher — writing a date at the desk
For whoever opens it
It opens in their browser
They tap the link and the letter is there. They can read it and answer without making an account.
They can pick one of your ideas, write something back, or suggest their own.
datepitcher — the letter, as the guest sees it
The fridge
One fridge for the two of you
Once you’re a two, you get a fridge you both open. Ideas either of you jots go on its door, and the dates you’ve had stay pinned there.
A date you seal on the fridge doesn’t need a link. It’s just there when they look.
datepitcher — a date, pinned to the fridge